LIps

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Friday, October 12, 2012

Moving on 

and 

Long term relationship with oneself



Having been in a relationship makes an individual to feel, to do, and to enjoy certain things. it is when you feel that you are cared and loved by your special someone. but what if one day, that someone break your heart and left you? How long will it take for you to move on and forget all the feelings and the things you used to do together? Would you dare to go into a relationship after a week, a month or even a year?

Well I guess it really take enough and quite some time to move on to a certain person in which you spend most of your time with. "Time heal all wounds"- a true and effective saying. teenagers nowadays do not appreciate that much the real meaning of "enjoying you teenage years" and about "taking their time wisely".
now, let us be inspired from this one ordinary college student as she whole-heartedly let us know and even feel her deepest feelings, insights and realizations when it comes in moving on and having a long time not engaging into a relationship, depending on no one but to herself and having more time loving no one but herself.

She is a fourth year Accountancy student. The first and last time she had a relationship was when she was in third year high school student. her first love was so magical though it was during high school days. the relationship went well until one day, with no valid reason her boyfriend left her because he fell out of love. She's so much in love but unfortunately her partner gave up.

It took her so much time, really a hard time in moving on from that terrible experience. Everywhere she went had a memorable experience together with her ex-boyfriend. Moving on was not really an easy task especially to teenagers, she said. for her, a heartbreak can make her whole life a misery.

until now, she is still single, loving herself even more and at the same time waiting patiently for God's perfect time to give her the best man that can love her truly and unconditionally. along her journey, suitors and other boys came along her way but she ignored it. her consistent prayers to our Almighty God made her realize not to look for love but instead take the opportunity to love and know more about herself. According to her, love is everywhere. So why spend so much time looking for someone to love? God has better and greater plans for us. All we just need id to wait patiently for the perfect time. At times, we may give up and think it's all useless but we must put in our minds that after all, it was all WORTH THE WAIT.
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-Rica Mae Pajarillo <3

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