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Friday, October 12, 2012

MEN in LOVE


 How do MEN fall in LOVE? How are they going to know if a GIRL would take them seriously? does the LOOKS really affects the capacity of individual to enter a RELATIONSHIP?



As I have interview two different person for this article, I noticed that they are really have different perspective on how they're going to be serious over a girl on the span of their relationship. The one that I have interview is really, NO DOUBT, good-looking person. Every girl in his school wants to be close to him. The other is just an average looking person but he has a good heart and take relationship as a serious matter. 


When I asked the good-looking guy, (he refused to published his real name, guess he's kinda SHY :P) about his past relationship, yes, PAST, his totally single and available for over half a year already, he can't help but laugh at me. Then I wondered why he is laughing so I asked him. He told me that he really can't count the number of time he's into a relationship. He supposed that it was already TEN. Or more. As he continue, he told me that some of his relationships last only for ONE WEEK, the SHORTEST last only for ONE DAY. I was laughing so hard when I heard his answer. That made me think that he is one HELL OF A PLAYBOY! :) I also asked him if he was really serious to his girlfriends way back then, then answered me by "YES, OF COURSE. DI NAMAN AKO CHICKBOY E." That made my brow raise higher than usual. I was really confused during the span of our interview, maybe because I don't really believe in some of his words. So I asked him again, HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU'RE GOING TO BE SERIOUS OVER A GIRL? He just simply answered me by "PAG NALAMAN MONG SERYOSO DIN SYA SAYO" Then I asked again "HOW WILL YOU KNOW THAT?" He said that "YOU WILL SEE IT IN HER EYES. HINDI MAEEXPLAIN PERO JUST BY THE LOOKS YOU'LL KNOW THAT SHE'S GOING TO BE A GOOD GIRLFRIEND TO YOU." When I asked him why did he broke up with his girlfriends or vice versa, he said that there are things in the world that is really inevitable. But now, even if the girl's chasing after him, he now refuse to be in a relationship with them because as he said he's really looking for a girl that would wanna make him stay from the other girls. The one he would be faithful of. 



 On the average-looking guy's Perspective, when I asked him about his past relationship, I was never really shocked when he said that he only have FOUR girlfriends in his 21 years in this world. He's not really that handsome but he surely does have a good heart. He's very much serious with his past girlfriends but they all left him hanging. And it takes a long period of time before he gets the SWEETEST YES of the girl. He did even come to the point when he already sets his future with them. When I asked him on how will he know if he's going to be serious over his girlfriend he simply answered me with "KAPAG SIMPLE LANG SYA. WALANG ARTE. BASTA SIMPLE." So, It made me think that he's just a man who wants a plain girl, a girl that would accept him for what he is, the one who would not try to change him into something that he's not. The last question I asked him is that how will he know if the girl is serious about him, he answered me by, "KAPAG NAGSESELOS SYA". 




With this two interviewee, I noticed that in love, LOOKS has really affects the capacity of every individual to be in a relationship. That's why everyone tries to look at their best always whenever they have liked someone, because it become the basis, maybe by many, of the person if they will entertain or allowed the relationship between them and the person that likes them into the getting to know each other level. And, as I interview both of them I realized that a man's brain is really on of the complicated things existing here on earth.

-CHARLENE GREYZ S. SANTIAGO

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